It worked!!
I loaded from Tales of Valor.
Go
here and download all the patches for ToV starting at 2.500 up to and including 2.602
Once they are downloaded, move them to your patch folder. For a windows 7 install it is:
C:\mydocuments\mygames\companyofheroes\Patch
Turn OFF Company of HeroesDouble click each patch, starting at 2.500, to run them. When you are complete running them all, restart your computer.
That's it, run CoH........ good luck remembering your password for Relic....lol