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We cant avoid each other and sit in each our game with 1 noob on the opposing team and a superstacked team on the other side. We simply arent enough players for this. If you are worried about a player on your team for any reason, just voice your concern in a honest way and its easier for everyone to work something out by either trading/exchanging players or reducing the team sizes. Currently a lot of players (myself included sometimes, I will be the first to admit) act in a socially dishonest way when setting up their teams, arguing etc.
If everyone would be more honest about why they are (obviously) dodging a game when there are enough total active players in launcher/site to play a game yet it is not setup even when prompted by other curious players.
It should be 100% okay to voice that you have a problem with a player, but arranging games wouldnt have to be so annoying as it is now if everyone just said it out loud that "I dont wanna play with X because he drophacked me, Y is no good on this team he is only a griefer". These are examples of legitimate reasons to not player with other players. However it is hurting the whole play environment when people are refusing to play each other for unspoken reasons and just ignore prompts to get a game going. Mainly because it gives other players the the impression, to put it in laymen terms, that you are a little bitch that would rather sit alone and pet your precious than accomodating other player's desire for a game when they most assuredely will return the favor at a later time, given that you keep playing EiR.
Show a little love, get a little love.
I agree with you, but if teams are stacked horribly, don't expect people to play, Where's the fun in fighting if you are really likely to lose?
And part of what I'm saying that if people just honestly admit that this is the problem keeping them from joining and participating in game they need to state this with instead of pulling passive shenanigans as if other players at least know what it is the problem they have an actual chance of accomodating this type of concern.